Maybe right now it’s about you
It’s the another end of the year, and so many of us starts to slow down to understand our next few steps. It was ‘Diwali’ yesterday, and it made me realised the importance of being at home once again. I’m here contemplating my choices of lives which is yet to be untangled and shared in a way to be understood by a reciever. So here I’m sharing what I feel about the process of giving time to self. Before you jump into the reading, I wish you a very Happy Diwali. Festive may have arrived in our lives for so many reasons but I love festive seasons because it allows me, my family and friends to reunite once again. Being encircled by people you love is an irreplacable feeling. May abundance and light find a way into your live.
/ Maybe right now you are just wondering in the garden thinking about everything and nothing at once. It feels like a vessel full of water has been kept on your head, you are trying to keep it down but it’s taking a-lot more time than usually.
/ Maybe right now journey isn’t about achieving any other mileston but you. In the process of thinking of self, we all have tendency to be little hard on ourselves. It’s okay to keep yourself as priority and trust me ‘you aren’t selfish’ for doing this.
/ Maybe this is the season you are being challenged to be your own savior. You look around yourself, you might find many helping hands. If you do, you are few among many who are lucky. Despite of help being around, you chose to be your own best friend, which may found silly but it’s okay.
/When it’s late at night, and intruisve thoughts keep wandering in your mind. Out of usual routine you check your phone, and you might find few messages from friends. Then you look at the window and feel the sound of rain droplets on window. Here, you chose to do nothing and just being in the moment.
/Sometimes we all really contemplate ‘hope’. Don’t we all have love and hate relationship with hope? It can leave on ‘waiting phase’ with a false reality that one day …… . Hope can be dangerous thing and yet most beautiful thing. Hope is the reason you chose to spend time with yourself in order to become better version of yourself. Hope is the reason you step out of the balcony in the evening to see the beautiful sunset. Hope has brought worse and best in all of us.
/ There is no ‘right time’ or ‘right place’ to be with your kid which lies in your soul. We all have tied up our own freedom of enjoy little things in order to please society. That little kid needs a space to come out, and dance. Let him/her come out. May rain/sunlight be little kind on the day you choose your soul to be out.
/We are grown-up, and we should work in a recognizable way. We aren’t permitted to feel miserable, hurt, or cheerful assuming anything occurs around us. Day is going truly hard on us, but we need to stroll with a cheerful grin all over. Some of the time we as a whole need to self cuddle and permit the feelings to get comfortable. It’s alright to be feel nostalgic, and cook our top picks 2 mins maggie. Sitting tight for 2 — minute maggie to complete the process of cooking following ten minutes. Such joy of moments gave us solace which you shouldn’t make sense of it for anybody.
/ “The way to turn an ex-lover into a friend is to never stop loving them, to know that one phase of a relationship ends it can transform into something else. It is to acknowledge that love is both a constant and a variable at the same time” — That’s how we make a fool of our heart. It may be okay or may not be. If it allow us to sleep peacefully in the middle of night, may this be okay.
/ We as a whole wish that in spite of series of tragic sentiments, we don’t become something which we won’t ever care about. I wish in the event that things needs to change genuinely, then, at that point, I wish you to turn out to be a greater amount of the individual who you are genuinely.
/ It’s 2 PM in the workplace. You had a harsh extreme discussion with your chief. You emerge from the workplace with a mournful eyes, you attempt to conceal your aggravation from the workplace local area. Some way or another you reach to a more secure spot to let your feelings out. Following couple of moments, you leave the more secure spot, and continue with your day. You question the motivation behind life — when you attempt to profound jump into your own considerations, there is an update for one more gathering in a short time. You left your contemplations in your heart some place, it could spring up later or sooner.
/ The thunder of morning rain wakes you up. Looks like it’s a busy day in your calendar yet you chose to cancel all meetings. You are in the mood to make your own chai, and cuddle with self under the blanket. The sound of rains makes you feel comfortable, and here you go with your chai and netflix series. May this comfort of being with self always remain intact.
Here, you are adapting, and mending, and reclaiming all of the pieces you let them walk away with. You are being kinder to yourself, and giving the same kind of love to yourself which you usually give it to others.
“We all have soul of different ages.” — F. Scott Fitzgerald
